Famous Friends: Susan B. Anthony and Elizabeth Cady Stanton

The women met in 1851 when Anthony traveled to an anti-slavery meeting in Seneca Falls, New York, where Stanton had organized the first national woman’s rights convention three years earlier. Amelia Bloomer introduced them on a street corner, sparking a friendship as co-leaders of the National American Woman Suffrage Association. Read The Sister Knot about two resilient women, orphaned in WW2, who defy fate to sustain a lifelong friendship. A compelling novel about the power of sisterhood. Learn more about the book in NOVELS.

Anthony and Stanton: Two determined women, one powerful suffrage movement

Two resilient women, two separate journeys, one lasting friendship

Famous Friends: Scout Finch and Boo Radley

In Harper Lee’s novel To Kill a Mockinbgbird, the friendship between a spunky young girl and her reclusive neighbor is marked by indirect contact but constant mutual awareness. Boo watches out for Scout like a guardian angel and his courage alters their lives. Read The Sister Knot about two resilient women, orphaned in WW2, who defy fate to sustain a lifelong friendship. A compelling novel about the power of sisterhood. Learn more about the book in NOVELS.

Scout and Boo: A memorable friendship between a spunky young girl and her reclusive neighbor

Two resilient women, two separate journeys, one lasting friendship

The Sister Knot reading at Booksweet in Ann Arbor, November 3 at 2 PM ET

Everyone is invited to a reading of The Sister Knot at Booksweet Bookstore (1729 Plymouth Road, Ann Arbor, 48105) on Sunday, November 3 at 2:00 PM ET. I’ll be reading with Caroline Huntoon, a nonbinary storyteller, educator, and author. The event is free and open to all. Hope to see you all there. Support Booksweet, your community bookstore!

The Sister Knot: First Place Award in Literary Historical Fiction

Author Ann S. Epstein writes novels, stories, memoir, and essays

The Sister Knot Wins Bookfest First Place Award

I’m delighted to announce that The Sister Knot won a Bookfest Fall 2024 Award for First Place in Literary Historical Fiction. Two resilient women, orphaned in WW2, follow different paths, yet defy fate to sustain a lifelong friendship. A poignant, compelling, and unforgettable novel about the power of sisterhood. Read more about the book in NOVELS.

First place award in literary historical fiction

Orphaned in WW2, two girls survive and sustain a lifelong friendship

The Words We Leave Behind

Many thanks to Glacier Hills Senior Living Community in Ann Arbor for hosting my talk on 10/22/24 about writing legacy documents — life reviews and ethical wills — for the family, friends, and colleagues who are important to us. Responding to “prompts,” people shared stories about the people, places, and events in their lives, and the lessons they learned from their experiences. The session featured both serious reflection and appreciative laughter. Two of my novels, The Great Stork Derby and The Sister Knot, now in the Glacier Hills library, offer further opportunities to read about the lives and lessons learned by the novels’ characters: a widowed father trying to make amends with his estranged children, and WWII orphans whose friendship survives a lifetime of challenges. To learn more about my work helping people write legacy documents, visit END-OF-LIFE DOULA.

Writing a legacy for our loved ones

Famous Friends: T. S. Eliot and Groucho Marx

British poet T.S. Eliot and American comedian Groucho Marx became friends when Eliot wrote Marx saying he was a fan and asking for an autograph. Marx reciprocated. They corresponded for several years and finally met in 1964, when Marx came for dinner. Seeing pictures of Eliot’s esteemed friends on the wall, Marx requested that his be added too. Eliot agreed but never complied. The friendship morphed into a sniping rivalry. Nevertheless, when Eliot died a few months later, Marx wrote that they had in common an affection for good cigars and cats, and a weakness for making puns.” Read The Sister Knot about two resilient women, orphaned in WW2, who defy fate to sustain a lifelong friendship. A compelling novel about the power of sisterhood. Learn more about the book in NOVELS.

Eliot and Marx, poet and punster, had a friendly rivalry

Two resilient women, two separate journeys, one lasting friendship

Famous Friends: Nick Carraway and Jay Gatsby

In The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald, Nick is more a sidelined narrator rather than a participating friend. Gatsby uses Nick, yet Nick vicariously relishes Gatsby’s romanticism. In the end, the relationship turns out badly for both. Read The Sister Knot about two resilient women, orphaned in WW2, who defy fate to sustain a lifelong friendship. A compelling novel about the power of sisterhood. Learn more about the book in NOVELS.

The Great Gatsby ends badly for the title character & his sidekick friend

Two resilient women, two separate journeys, one lasting friendship

What I’m Reading: French Braid

My Goodreads and Amazon review of French Braid by Anne Tyler (Rated 4) – Form Follows Function. French Braid, the title of Anne Tyler’s latest novel, refers to the structure of the book as well as the nature of families. A French braid is constructed by plaiting a handful of tresses and working your way along the scalp, adding others to create one multi-level integrated structure. The more you add, the sturdier the braid, with thicker hairs holding thinner ones in place. Such is the nature of four generations of the Garrett family, their forebears, and those who will follow. They don’t always agree with, understand, or even like, one another, but they are nonetheless interwoven. This theme is perhaps best illustrated in the recurring scenes of children bringing their “intended” spouses home to meet their parents and siblings. Approval is not required but the ritual must be observed. It is in capturing the small details of family life — both intimacies and irritations — that Tyler excels. The Garretts are essentially well meaning, if occasionally clueless, people. In other words, they’re your average American family. Readers will warm to them, some individuals more than others, and not always the ones you initially expect to take a shine to. My only criticism is that it is sometimes hard to keep the cousins straight; some are mere wisps and their nature, like fly-away hairs, don’t add to the braid. As a novelist myself (see my Amazon author page and Goodreads author page), I wish Tyler had given these secondary characters more substance or snipped them out altogether. Wisps aside, French Braid is a small but satisfying novel with deep and enduring truths about the strands that inevitably draw families together.

Plaited people in plaited chapters

Why writers read: “If I could always read I should never feel the want of company.” – Lord Byron

What I’m Reading: Laughing in Her Sleep

My Goodreads and Amazon review of Laughing in Her Sleep by Alycia and Jon Vreeland (Rated 5) – Laughing in Heaven. There are two ways to read Jon Vreeland’s poems in Laughing in Her Sleep: One at a time or via total immersion. Either way, pause over the penetrating illustrations by Alycia Vreeland. Unlike her colorful paintings, her line drawings are as dark and dense as Jon’s poems. Some are as whimsical as his words. Jon is obsessed with Death and Drugs (D & D). Some poems surrender to the depths; others are aspirational. Jon reaches for something better or (literally) higher. His judgements are harsh (especially toward himself) but his sympathies are generous. He can also be very funny! Jon sees, hears, and smells beauty as well as ugliness. Wherever he aims his senses, Jon doesn’t shy away from life’s crazy mixture. As a prose fiction writer (see my Amazon author page and Goodreads author page), I revere Jon’s storytelling talents. Each poem has a setting, salient details, and characters whose interactions are “small” but never insignificant. Jon imbues them with meaning, be they comforting or confrontational. His self-written obituary is as refreshingly arrogant as Jon himself, according him the glory he wasn’t granted in life, except by those who knew and loved him. And for whom, if not them, is the obit written? I won’t comment on the life review that ends the book (since I compiled it) except to say I was honored to be asked and entrusted with the precious memories his family and friends shared. Jon’s death is both a personal and a literary loss. We are fortunate his words live on. I trust he and Hemingway are laughing together in writers’ heaven.

Wrenching words, penetrating pictures

Why writers read: “Read to make yourself smarter! Less judgmental. More apt to understand your friends’ insane behavior, or better yet, your own.” – John Waters

Famous Friends: Max Gendelman and Karl Kirschner

Gendelman was a Jewish American soldier captured in World War II; Kirschner a German pilot. Gendelman was imprisoned in a camp next to the family farm where Kirschner was recovering from a combat wound. Sneaking the prisoner through a hole in the fence, the men met to play chess and drink coffee. Kirschner eventually helped Gendelman escape. When the war ended, Gendelman helped Kirschner emigrate to the U.S. Gendelman said of the friendship, “We saw in each other an immediate connection, a brother.” Read The Sister Knot about two resilient women, orphaned in WW2, who defy fate to sustain a lifelong friendship. A compelling novel about the power of sisterhood. Learn more about the book in NOVELS.

Gendelman & Kirschner: Jewish American POW & German soldier unlikely friends

Two resilient women, two separate journeys, one lasting friendship